How do you make people gravitate to you ..?!!

Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings



I thought that I have is the subject special Ptaammeltna with others (people - friends - colleagues - etc.) you were collected this topic

Dealing with people and one of the most important art arts .. If it is easy to lose respect for people

It is not easy to earn their love and gain appreciation


If you like the first Chi people are attracted to Kaptsm


Smile: It is also called the "magic".

Says the Prophet, peace be upon him:
(Smiling in the face of your brother is charity)

Try to look always smiling, it makes you acceptable to people

Even those who did not they may know well Valaptsama know, en route to the heart

Laugh of life you laugh

On frown to a smile



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Show your interest to others



People do not bother you even care about themselves, Van Ahtmit them gained their friendship, remember their birth dates, and events such as holidays, weddings and diseases, as well as the reply on the phone in a friendly manner with a show of joy in talking, and attention to their interests such as hobbies, for example

Always remember that the man who does not care about others is the one who will suffer from the difficulties of life, and one can gain the attention and cooperation of the people through the months to express strong interest in their




The poet says:

The best people to enslave their hearts **** As long enslaved rights Ahsanahsn if what was possible and the ability of **** will not last on the human possibility.


When you talk to someone look into his eyes and you can consider anywhere else believed you to Imbali

When you say thank you does not say so but say thank you because you have done well as well as



Shake hands is very important, particularly duck hands which between thumb and Sbabhhma the skin sends a signal not the person cognitive

To Atsafh one violent manner such that I feel weak say to myself, but I will prove I am strong that press your hands squeeze


And one Atsafh and extract your hand from his hand and Ttgolh loses his balance



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Be a listener before



If you want to be a spokesman before, be a listener unaware listened with interest

And ask Maihlo the other person to answer,

And encouraged him to talk about himself and his achievements, Voaansan cares about himself

And desires and problems-fold interest and your بمشاكلك,

فالألم Alveasab teeth is the most important he has fifty earthquake.

The ability to listen More rare any other capacity.

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Talked about the things that are of interest to others




The main road to the human heart is a conversation about the things that cherished by the nature of the human psyche love listening to things Altiatz, and so it was the nearest road to arouse people's attention


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Do not always criticize .. And respect the opinions of others


If you omit the constant criticism of the style did not tell anyone that he is mistaken, and used Bdlamnh the praise and appreciation,

She declined to speak what you want personally and tried to look through the perspective of others; find yourself completely different, happier and friends, you can say to anyone that he is mistaken,

Do you want to agree to that?

Never ..

You sent him a direct blow to the intelligence, wisdom and pride and self-respect,

Thus transmitted the desire to re-strike you, will not make him deviate from his mind because you Msat feeling


The wrong person is not it better to take the initiative by saying: Well I have a different opinion and maybe I'm wrong?? Valtoagaf accusing people we will return with good results


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Do not argue with

The best way out of the controversy the best results Hean avoid controversy;

Because if you lost you will lose,

And I've earned will lose;

Because you feel satisfied, but the other person?

We have wounded pride and Djalth feel inferior, and Christtqrvozak

And has thus lost,

Will not be able to force him to believe what is Ddaradth the ..

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Spoke in a friendly manner without anger


If you are at the top of wrath, and emptied Gazk the this on others you Ststrih,


But what Analchks the other?


Will you share your convenience this?

Does acute accent and style hostile easy is opinion Mchatrtk?


Will this be the art of turning enemies into friends?


The people can not be forced to agree with me or with you,

But can their leadership so that we were very kindness and make friends with them;

This is what men business from Maholhaltodd and closer to the strikers,

And lawyers and they use courtship style in their arguments to influence judges

He says: if you're rude boor heart to shake around ..

He says: and argue with them in the best manner

The Prophet, peace be upon him:

What was kindness in the thing but it adorns it, and what was in anything but violence would



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Sympathy with the opinions and desires of others

For Oardt to learn the words magically put an end to the controversy, and removes the feeling of hatred, good Toldalnah and make the other person listens you Basghae;


Fa words began by saying:
Do not blame you at all to feel this, I if I were you acted just like you


The answer such a sponsor unit that softens more salaciousness people and love to argue;


And you say will be honest أنكلو you place in the circumstances did you do like it;

And say to yourself: that his action is not only which of God Almighty be upon him


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Stay away from gossips .. It behavior repugnant alienate people you

And degrades their destiny


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Keep your appointments with people and I respect Vaanramk have them


.. It will be your respect them .. And thus Sapadlonc respect the same



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Not be obtrusive to ask for your need and do not try to embarrass requests him to make up


He tried to start his you Tadhirh in case of failure to perform and they will not affect the relationship between you


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Try to be a collaborator with others within the limits of your ability .. but when Atalbzlk even away from curiosity

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